Am I Gay If I’m Attracted to Shemales?

by Alec Jaye, Your Shemale Pick-Up Wingman

“Am I gay if I am attracted to shemales?” Probably not!
“Am I gay if I like shemales?”  Probably not.!
“Am I gay if I have sex with shemales? Probably not!

These are all basically the same question and it occurs to a lot of men who are attracted to shemales.

Am I gay if I’m attracted to shemales is one of the most frequently asked questions by straight guys who find they are sexually attracted to shemales. I have to tell you right up front that this fascination with trans women is exceptionally popular, despite what many might believe. In speaking with a prominent (heterosexual) adult webmaster, I made the remark that shemales are a largely underserved niche on the Internet. He (quite correctly) pointed out. Shemales are no longer a niche. They are mainstream!

Am I gay if I am attracted to pre-op shemales?

Before you rip up your membership card to the straight heterosexual dudes club, let’s take a closer look at the question and the motivations behind attraction to shemales. Let’s face it. We’re brought up in a macho world where it can be quite difficult to stray from the vanilla mainstream ways that are socially acceptable for “real men.” So let’s tackle that question, “am I gay if I am attracted to pre-op shemales?” Well, not particularly. Ask yourself, what are you attracted to? Are you attracted to the female form and you’re able to look past the biological gender? That doesn’t quite qualify as gay. Even if you have no problem dealing with or find yourself attracted to the shemale penis, that still doesn’t make you gay. Would you have sex with a guy wearing a plaid shirt and a long beard? If so, then maybe you’re bisexual or something.

The reality is that being gay is a state of being. It is of your essence. You can’t pray it away and you can’t ignore it — for it is a part of your very being. If you’re gay, you are attracted to men, plain and simple. Bisexual guys are somewhere in between with attraction to both genders. Honestly, it’s just fine to be gay if that’s what you are but simply being attracted to a gorgeous shemale hardly makes you gay.

If you adore shemales…

My advice is to enjoy yourself. Be safe and be respectful to your partners. Most of all, don’t get hung up on stereotypes and outdated social norms. Go have fun and don’t apologize to anyone for having the courage and intelligence to step outside the boundaries of normal life.

I hope I help relieve your concerns about what you’re gay if you are attracted to shemales. When you’re ready, I might suggest that you take a look at my guide, where to meet shemales. Then you can go look at the local trans dating profiles to see if you spot any local shemale hotties.